If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
Initially I think Cece Bell, author of the graphic memoir El Deafo, might’ve asked for her hearing back. (She lost it when she was four years old due to meningitis.) But some things we can’t change.
Life guarantees us only a few things, one of them is change. Lucky is the child whose parents can teach them how to roll with the punches. . . the valuable gift of resilience. Where one might see doom, another sees an opportunity to better their life, and maybe those around them.
The graphic novel focuses on Cece going to a regular hearing school when she enters first grade. She is the only one who can’t hear, and very conscious of how different that makes her. To make her stand out even more, in those days she had to wear a phonic ear. The phonic ear is a huge contraption that Cece draws and explains well in the book.
Though the book has been out for a few years now, I’m not going to talk much about the story just in case you, or your kids, haven’t read it yet. In fact our latest interviewee, Pam Simon, hadn’t heard of it. Being a part of the deaf community for so long, she instantly read it and loved it.
So since much of last week’s interview focused on what it’s like to be ‘the other,’ the different person, we decided to review El Deafo for this week’s book review vid.
What I will say is that through trial and error, Cece finds that not fitting in can have its advantages. Ultimately her deafness becomes a superpower that allows her to help her classmates, and thus become the hero of her class.
Resilience: The capacity to recover quickly from difficulties. Oxford Dictionary
Cece has resilience in spades.
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